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SuggestiveStep 03 of 07 · Pain · free
Fall in love with the problem, not the solution. Most failed startups didn't fail because the team couldn't build — they failed because they built something nobody actually needed badly enough to switch.
Score each pain candidate by Frequency × Severity. Track Conversations Had as your validation gate. Write down what would disprove the pain— so you can't pretend you didn't see it later.
Step 1 · Define your beachhead
Before scoring any pain, name the narrow market you're actually serving and the specific person inside it. Pains scored against “everyone” are unfalsifiable. (Borrowed from Bill Aulet's Disciplined Entrepreneurship — the beachhead discipline.)
Step 2 · Score each pain
Score = Frequency × Severity. Validation = conversations had.
Where to listen
Primary — the only thing that counts as a Conversation.
One-to-one with a real person in your beachhead. The Mom-Test discipline: ask about their past behavior, not their future intentions. After every conversation, write down a verbatim quote — if you can't, you have your paraphrase, not their words. Aim for 10–20 conversations before treating any pain as “Validated.”
Secondary — where founders find what to listen for.
Use these to discover the pain language your beachhead persona actually uses, and to find people to interview. Read posts and comments where they're already complaining out loud:
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